Our Five Minute Friday prompt this week is—AGREE. This largely unedited “rough draft” form of writing stretches this perfectionist, in the best of ways. We write for five minutes on a given word. If you’re interested in learning more about 5-Minute Fridays, check out the Five Minute Friday website. Or, click on the link at the bottom of this post. As you read my simpler Friday posts, I hope you’ll join in the conversation!
God has imprinted the word, Authentic, on my heart. I spent a year focusing on that word, and God taught me much.
More than almost anything, I want to live an authentic life. One that reflects Jesus through words and actions.
A life that is honest and real with those around me. Especially the ones I love the most.
Authentic and Agree do not always co-exist.
For decades I spent so much time trying to be agreeable. To fit in. To be accepted.
I could agree with almost anyone (within reason) and think I was being honest. With myself. With them.
But the truth is: we are not always going to agree with people. Things will be done that bother us. Words will be spoken that hurt. Are unfair. Untrue.
Do we just have to brush over it for the sake of agreement? Of unity? Of being godly?
Sometimes, to agree with someone is to be inauthentic.
It’s easy to agree with others to avoid conflict. But when that’s the main reason for agreement, we lose a piece of ourselves and gain compromise and falseness.
We don’t have to enter into conflict all the time. But we need to accept the fact that there will be times when, to be authentic is the higher calling. To agree with someone or something will strip our “real-ness” and replace it with a phony.
Can we be authentic and disagree with someone? Yes. Can we do it in love? Hopefully.
This is what God calls us to. When we disagree with another, may we do so in a loving way. God doesn’t call us to be right or even authentic above all else. He calls us to love.
This looks different depending on relationships, circumstances. But if we can reflect His love in a situation, authenticity can weave deeper into the fabric of who we are.
What about you? How do you disagree with someone in a loving manner? How do you live out authenticity?
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I’m linking up with Five Minute Friday—Agree