+Jeanne Takenaka @JeanneTakenaka
Our Five Minute Friday prompt this week is—EXCUSE. This largely unedited “rough draft” form of writing stretches this perfectionist, in the best of ways. We write for five minutes on a given word. If you’re interested in learning more about 5-Minute Fridays, check out the Five Minute Friday website. Or, click on the link at the bottom of this post. As you read my simpler Friday posts, I hope you’ll join in the conversation!
“Mom, I didn’t know I wasn’t supposed to get ice-cream without permission.”
“I have to do this thing in my room (translate: goof off for awhile) before I do my homework.”
“I can’t help this behavior, it’s just the way I am.”
“Sorry, I’m having an off day. Normally, I keep all my appointments, and I’m five minutes early.”
We’ve all used them. I find we tend to fall back on them for various reasons. They cover over an aspect or a shortcoming within us that we don’t want exposed.
We may want to avoid trouble. Or avoid doing something unpleasant.
Or perhaps we’re trying to veneer a shortcoming. Or slip on a mask that make us look better to someone else.
As I thought about excuses, I realized that most of the reasons we use them is to cover or hide something that we consider inadequate about ourselves.
We don’t always want to own our mistakes. We’d rather hide them and justify why we did (or didn’t) do something.
Using excuses often reveals our struggle with insecurity. We don’t want people to see the real us. We are afraid people will find us lacking in some way.
Or am I the only one who deals with that?
When we try to justify something we did and make it sound okay?
The “I’m sorry I’m late. I’m usually five minutes early.”
We want to make ourselves look good to someone else.
The thing is? God knows our hearts. He knows the areas in our hearts where we’re afraid we fall short in the eyes of others.
God’s not asking us to wear a facade in front of those around us. He wants us to be authentic.
When we own our mistakes to others, we open the door to vulnerability.
When we admit our desire to get out of something, our real-ness provides a safe place for others to admit when they have felt or done something similar.
And, when we own the fact that we are less than perfect? Wow. That is a powerful testimony to others. Because it’s only when we’re willing to strip away the excuses and let God shine through the cracks in our lives that we can truly reflect Him to those around us.
What about you? How do you choose authenticity over excuses? What’s the funniest excuse you’ve ever heard (or used)?
I’m linking up with Five Minute Friday—Excuse.