By Jeanne Takenaka
My Five Minute Friday prompt this week is—Release. This largely unedited “rough draft” form of writing stretches this perfectionist, in the best of ways. I write for five minutes on a given topic. If you’re interested in learning more about 5-Minute Fridays, check out Lisa-Jo Baker‘s site. Or, click on the link at the bottom of this post. As you read my simpler Friday posts, I hope you’ll join in the conversation!
I used to think I had control of my life.
Get my college degree. Check,
Get my first teaching job: Check
Life had gone according to my plans. I walked with God, grew with Him through my twenties.
I prayed until God brought me an amazing husband. Checked that off the list.
Then, according to our plans, we began trying to have a baby. No check.
Unless you count the one that went on my calendar each month when my body declared I was not pregnant.
It was during those early days on the infertility journey that I began to discover I was not truly in control of my life. God is sovereign. He revealed to me that in HIs sovereignty is His love.
How did I reconcile this with the fact that I wanted a baby to cradle in my arms?
I fought Him, of course. For awhile.
He let me. Until I came to the point where I could release my desire for my plans and embrace His plan. Even though I didn’t know what it would be.
Even if it might not include children grown in my womb.
Releasing my plans and looking to His gave me the peace and the strength to walk through the journey of infertility.
It prepared me for when He did sew motherhood into the fabric of my story, through adoption.
Releasing my plans for His is one way I live my love for Him out loud. Trusting His plan, trading good for best.
Release all I clung to so I could embrace all He had for me.
It was definitely worth the trade.
What about you? When have you released something in your life? What was the end result?